My Top 5 Worst Baby Buy
It won’t be me if I didn’t go crazy shopping when I was expecting. Although I always do my research and try to avoid impulse buying, things happened. Impulse buy is unavoidable especially when I was desperate and sleep-deprived, I would give anything to get more sleep or time for myself, thus buying stuffs I could probably live without.
This list hopefully helps other expecting/new moms to make better judgement (which isn’t always easy when you don’t have enough sleep) and avoid spending funds that could have been spent for something else more useful.
The things I list here by no means a low quality useless products. It’s the other way around, they’re expensive and very high quality products. It’s just that I could have used something else better without spending so much money.
1. Baby Bjorn Carrier
I wish I knew about better baby carrier when I first needed one. Actually, I had a traditional Indonesian sling (selendang) but didn’t know how to use it comfortably. I wished I had researched more and use that instead of buying an expensive Baby Bjorn Carrier. Now I have Manduca, which I love, and a couple of woven wraps. I wish I bought Manduca, or even Ergo, instead of the uncomfortable Baby Bjorn. But I was desperate then, I needed to be hands free and bub was very unsettle. It was the best thing I could find in the shop. It was very expensive and uncomfortable. A soft structured carrier like Manduca and Ergo last longer, better ergonomically for both mom and bub.
2. Baby Swing
It was cute, and I loved swing as a little girl, so I couldn’t resist. I also thought, maybe my newborn would sleep in it instead of needing me to hold him all the time. I was so wrong. He was mesmerised by it for a little while (especially the handle!) but didn’t keep him happy long enough. He did sleep in it a couple of time, but it’s really something I could do without. Or at least buy it second hand. He grew out of it in 4 months. The swing was pretty expensive to buy. Not worth it for the amount of time he spent in it.
3.Portable Cot
I bought a portacot thinking my baby would happily stay in there while I do thing around the house. Of course he didn’t like it. He rather be on the floor. Then as he grew mobile, I thought it will confine him while I go to the bathroom, etc. But he would scream when I put him in there. I ended up toddler-proofing my house instead. Now the portacot isn’t used anymore. I could have gone by without one.
4. Way too many newborn nappies
I ended up giving away a box of them. We were gifted a bit too many, and bought a bit too many, and bub grew out of it a bit too quickly.
5. Way too many breastpads
Seeing firsthand my sister’s explosive breastfeeding experience, I thought I would be the same. So I stocked up plenty of breastpads. Little did I know my supply settled down and I don’t need them. I’m left with a box of unused breastpads now. Well, I guess I can use them when bub starts weaning.





